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Boeken over Ouderschap: een top 5

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Maandag vijf januari 2015 is een dag die ik niet licht zal vergeten. Die ochtend verscheen de eerste blogpost op This Is How We Read – bravo, trouwe lezers.  Maar er gebeurde nog iets anders. Die dag deed ik voor de vijfde keer in mijn leven een zwangerschapstest… en voor de derde keer bleek die positief.

Nieuw jaar, nieuwe blog. Zo had ik het gepland. Nieuw jaar, nieuwe baby. Van een verrassing gesproken.

 

Intussen ben ik zo’n eenentwintig weken zwanger en al helemaal gewend en gehecht aan (het idee van) die derde baby. Toch verloopt deze zwangerschap anders dan de eerste twee. Ik was razendsnel dik – mijn buikspieren zijn duidelijk niet meer wat ze geweest zijn. Op het huwelijk van Eveline waren we met twee zwangere bruidsmeisjes. Jellina was eenendertig weken ver van haar eerste kindje en ik ocharme achttien weken van nummer drie. En iedereen maar vragen wie van ons als eerste zou bevallen… Awtsj!

Ik ben niet zo’n flinke zwangere als de vorige keren. Van alcohol, sushi en niet-gepasteuriseerde kazen blijf ik uiteraard af, maar mijn koffieverslaving raakt maar niet ingedamd. Hoewel ik echt geen hyperactieve cafeïnebaby wil.  Ik ben in mijn hoofd veel minder bezig met deze zwangerschap dan bij Astrid of Johanna. Beschamend dieptepunt: maandagmiddag verscheen ik op het verkeerde uur bij mijn gynaecoloog voor mijn uitgebreide twintig weken echo. Ik had de kans om op een echografietoestel naar de zwaaiende mini-armpjes van ons kindje-in-wording te kijken… en ik liet die voorbijgaan omdat ik te erg op een paar deadlines voor het werk was gefixeerd. Onvoorstelbaar!

Een laatste teken dat dit The End is van Pregnancy as I Know it: ik heb de afgelopen eenentwintig weken nog niet één boek over baby’s, zwangerschap, opvoeding of de ontwikkeling van jonge kinderen gelezen.

Bij Astrid stond de teller rond deze tijd op zo’n vierendertig, geloof ik. Oh well, het aantal toptitels over ouderschap is uiteindelijk beperkt. En ik ben vrij zeker dat ik de vijf beste boeken heb gelezen:

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Marie Darrieussecq, De Baby – notities van een jonge moeder, Meulenhoff: Deze grappige, intelligente Française die in 2013 terecht de Prix Médicis kreeg voor haar schandaalroman over een interculturele liefde observeerde in 2002 een jaar lang verwonderd haar eerste zoon. Verrukt toekijken hoe je kind met z’n onbeholpen armpjes naar een speeltje graait… en net zo goed Montagne, Rilke, de genderkwestie of het ‘Viva la muerte’ van de Spaanse fascisten in je hoofd hebben? Darrieussecq bewijst dat het kan. Wat zeg je daarvan, Simone – ‘Je kunt geen intellectueel zijn en tegelijk een goede moeder’ – de Beauvoir?

Selma Fraiberg, De Magische Wereld van het Kind, Spectrum: Volgens de kaft ‘Sinds 1966 het standaardwerk over de ontwikkeling van kinderen!’. Volgens mij ook hét boek voor alle ouders die het spuugzat zijn om in de Oei, ik groei te lezen dat baby’s hun wereld beleven als ‘een soepje’. Fraiberg vertelt in feite hetzelfde verhaal, maar dan uitgebreid, boeiend en wetenschappelijk onderbouwd. Ze toont de onvermijdelijke onttroning van de grote magiër die elk klein kind aanvankelijk gelooft te zijn.

Charles Fernyhough, De Baby in de Spiegel – Over het ontstaan van bewustzijn, Olympus:  Een schrijver en ontwikkelingspsycholoog als vader, het moet een vloek zijn en een zegen. Kleine Athena Fernyhough was in de eerste drie jaar van haar leven zowel de oogappel als het studieobject van haar papa. Die observeerde zijn kind, nam nota’s en maakte video’s.  Charles wou het ontwaken van Athena’s bewustzijn – een proces waarover hij alles wist uit boeken – ‘live’ volgen, becommentariëren en vastleggen. Het resultaat is een liefdevolle psychologische studie en een gedetailleerd logboek van een peuterbestaan. De baby in de spiegel legt verhelderend uit hoe een babybrein zich vormt. Af en toe had ik wel te doen met de kleine Athena.

Zoveel goedbedoelde vaderlijke aandacht moet toch een beetje verstikken.

Jon & Myla Kabat-Zinn, Met kinderen groeien – over aandacht in opvoeding en gezin, Asoka: Leven met kinderen is een spirituele oefening. Een baby krijgen is voor ouders een enorme innerlijke groeikans. Weinig zaken drukken je neus zo op je eigen verleden, verwachtingen en gedragspatronen als een kind dat naar je opkijkt in huis. Ik weet het: kort samengevat klinkt de filosofie van het koppel Kabat-Zinn, pioniers van de mindfulness beweging, behoorlijk wollig.

Dat kinderen kleine zenmeesters zijn is een mooi idee, maar op zaterdagmiddag in de supermarkt gaat een mens aan het waarheidsgehalte ervan twijfelen.

Het leuke is dat dit kloeke boek genuanceerder en overtuigender is dan de korte samenvatting suggereert. Wil je bewust genieten van je kind, het helpen groeien en ook zelf nog wat opsteken? Dan weet je welk boek er op je nachtkastje hoort.

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Midas Dekkers, De Larf – over kinderen en metamorfose, Olympus: Midas Dekkers, Nederlands bekendste schrijvende bioloog (denk: Dirk Draulans, maar dan ouder, wijzer en met wat meer sarcastische humor…) onderzoekt de rol die kinderen spelen in natuur en cultuur. Dit boek gaat net zo vaak over Freud en Darwin als over luizen, rupsen en vlinders. Ook kinderen komen af en toe ter sprake – maar lang niet zo vaak als in bovenstaande boeken. Midas Dekkers houdt ervan om laaaaang uit te weiden, ik heb jullie gewaarschuwd. Maar eerlijk, ik vond al die zijsprongen behoorlijk fascinerend en op de hoofdstelling van het boek (een kind en een volwassene zijn net zo verschillend als een larf en een vlinder) valt weinig af te dingen. Om het met Dekkers te zeggen:

Houd kinderen zoals je een huisdier houdt, met veel liefde en een beetje hoop. Als het je met konijnen lukt, lukt het je ook wel met een kind.

Je moet je kind niet als een mens behandelen. Dat is het niet. Het is een heel ander wezen. Het is een larf. Probeer die larf niet tot een mens op te voeden, dat lukt je toch niet, help hem liever om een goede larf te zijn, dan komt hij er vanzelf wel achter hoe hij zichzelf tot mens kan ontpoppen.

Tot die tijd behandel je hem het best alsof hij tot een andere soort behoort. Dat komt het meest met de werkelijkheid overeen.”

PS: Welk van bovenstaande boeken zou jij graag voor Moederdag krijgen?

PPS: Wie heeft er een tip voor een goed boek over ouderschap voor mij? Het is niet onmogelijk dat de baby-gelinkte leeshonger later in deze zwangerschap toch weer toeslaat…

PPPS: Dit is geen korte blogpost, Eveline. Ik besef het.

De foto’s bij dit stukje dateren van april 2013, toen ik 34 weken zwanger was van Johanna. Ik ben momenteel behoorlijk rond voor 21 weken, maar nu ook weer niet zó. Op de laatste foto is Johanna 4 maanden (ze wordt binnenkort 2).

 

 

 

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Contents

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When you visit our website

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Web server log information

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Use of website server log information for IT security purposes

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Legal basis for processing: compliance with a legal obligation to which we are subject (Article 6(1)(c) of the General Data Protection Regulation).

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Use of website server log information to analyse website use and improve our website

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When you contact us

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Email

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Reason why necessary to perform a contract: where your message relates to us providing you with goods or services or taking steps at your request prior to providing you with our goods and services (for example, providing you with information about such goods and services), we will process your information in order to do so).

Enquiry forms

When you contact us using an enquiry form, we collect your personal details and match this to any information we hold about you on record. Typical personal information collected will include your name and contact details. We will also record the time, date and the specific form you completed.

If you do not provide the mandatory information required by our contact form, you will not be able to submit the contact form and we will not receive your enquiry.

Legal basis for processing: our legitimate interests (Article 6(1)(f) of the General Data Protection Regulation).

Legitimate interest(s): responding to enquiries and messages we receive and keeping records of correspondence.

We will also use this information to tailor any follow up sales and marketing communications with you. For further information, see the section of this privacy policy titled ‘Marketing Communications’.

Messages you send to us via our contact form may be stored outside the European Economic Area on our contact form provider’s servers.

Phone

When you contact us by phone, we collect your phone number and any information provide to us during your conversation with us.

We record customer-facing phone calls for training and customer service purposes.

Legal basis for processing: our legitimate interests (Article 6(1)(f) of the General Data Protection Regulation)

Legitimate interest(s): responding to enquiries and messages we receive and keeping records of correspondence.

Legal basis for processing: necessary to perform a contract or to take steps at your request to enter into a contract (Article 6(1)(b) of the General Data Protection Regulation).

Reason why necessary to perform a contract: where your message relates to us providing you with goods or services or taking steps at your request prior to providing you with our goods and services (for example, providing you with information about such goods and services), we will process your information in order to do so).

Post

If you contact us by post, we will collect any information you provide to us in any postal communications you send us.

Legal basis for processing: our legitimate interests (Article 6(1)(f) of the General Data Protection Regulation)

Legitimate interest(s): responding to enquiries and messages we receive and keeping records of correspondence.

Legal basis for processing: necessary to perform a contract or to take steps at your request to enter into a contract (Article 6(1)(b) of the General Data Protection Regulation).

Reason why necessary to perform a contract: where your message relates to us providing you with goods or services or taking steps at your request prior to providing you with our goods and services (for example, providing you with information about such goods and services), we will process your information in order to do so).

Marketing communications

Our content, goods and services

When signing up for content, registering on our website or making a payment, we will use the information you provide in order to contact you regarding related content, products and services.

We will continue to send you marketing communications in relation to similar goods and services if you do not opt out from receiving them.

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Legal basis for processing: our legitimate interests (Article 6(1)(f) of the General Data Protection Regulation).

Legitimate interests: Sharing relevant, timely and industry-specific information on related business services, in order to assist your organisation, grow.

Third party goods and services

In addition to receiving information about our products and services, you can opt in to receiving marketing communications from us in relation third party goods and services by email by ticking a box indicating that you would like to receive such communications.

Legal basis for processing: consent (Article 6(1)(a) of the General Data Protection Regulation).

Consent: you give your consent to us sending you information about third party goods and services by signing up to receive such information in accordance with the steps described above.

Transfer and storage of your information

Information for marketing campaigns will be stored outside the European Economic Area on our third-party mailing list provider’s servers in the United States.

For further information about the safeguards used when your information is transferred outside the European Economic Area, see the section of this privacy policy below entitled Transfers of your information outside the European Economic Area.

Use of tracking in emails

We use technologies such as tracking pixels (small graphic files) and tracked links in the emails we send to allow us to assess the level of engagement our emails receive by measuring information such as the delivery rates, open rates, click through rates and content engagement that our emails achieve.

Information obtained from third parties

This section sets out how we obtain or collect information about you from third parties.

Information received from third parties

We can often receive information about you from third parties. The third parties from which we receive information about you can include partner events within the marketing industry and other organisations that we have a professional affiliation with.

It is also possible that third parties with whom we have had no prior contact may provide us with information about you.

Information we obtain from third parties will generally be your name and contact details but will include any additional information about you which they provide to us.

Legal basis for processing: necessary to perform a contract or to take steps at your request to enter into a contract (Article 6(1)(b) of the General Data Protection Regulation).

Reason why necessary to perform a contract: where a third party has passed on information about you to us (such as your name and email address) in order for us to provide services to you, we will process your information in order to take steps at your request to enter into a contract with you and perform a contract with you (as the case may be).

Legal basis for processing: consent (Article 6(1)(a) of the General Data Protection Regulation).

Consent: where you have asked that a third party to share information about you with us and the purpose of sharing that information is not related to the performance of a contract or services by us to you, we will process your information on the basis of your consent, which you give by asking the third party in question to pass on your information to us.

Legal basis for processing: our legitimate interests (Article 6(1)(f) of the General Data Protection Regulation).

Legitimate interests: where a third party has shared information about you with us and you have not consented to the sharing of that information, we will have a legitimate interest in processing that information in certain circumstances.

For example, we would have a legitimate interest in processing your information to perform our obligations under a sub-contract with the third party, where the third party has the main contract with you. Our legitimate interest is the performance of our obligations under our sub-contract.

Similarly, third parties may pass on information about you to us if you have infringed or potentially infringed any of our legal rights. In this case, we will have a legitimate interest in processing that information to investigate and pursue any such potential infringement.

Information obtained by us from third parties

In certain circumstances (for example, to verify the information we hold about you or obtain missing information we require to provide you with a service) we will obtain information about you from certain publicly accessible sources, both EU and non-EU, such as Companies House, online customer databases, business directories, media publications, social media, and websites (including your own website if you have one.

In certain circumstances will also obtain information about you from private sources, both EU and non-EU, such as marketing data services.

We will continue to send you marketing communications in relation to similar goods and services if you do not opt out from receiving them.

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Legal basis for processing: our legitimate interests (Article 6(1)(f) of the General Data Protection Regulation).

Legitimate interests: Sharing relevant, timely and industry-specific information on related business services.

Where we receive information about you in error

If we receive information about you from a third party in error and/or we do not have a legal basis for processing that information, we will delete your information.

Disclosure and additional uses of your information

This section sets out the circumstances in which will disclose information about you to third parties and any additional purposes for which we use your information.

Disclosure of your information to service providers

We use a number of third parties to provide us with services which are necessary to run our business or to assist us with running our business

These include the following: Internet services, IT service providers and web developers.

Our third-party service providers are located both inside and outside of the European Economic Area.

Your information will be shared with these service providers where necessary to provide you with the service you have requested, whether that is accessing our website or ordering goods and services from us.

We do not display the identities of our service providers publicly by name for security and competitive reasons. If you would like further information about the identities of our service providers, however, please contact us directly by email and we will provide you with such information where you have a legitimate reason for requesting it (where we have shared your information with such service providers, for example).

Legal basis for processing: legitimate interests (Article 6(1)(f) of the General Data Protection Regulation).

Legitimate interest relied on: where we share your information with these third parties in a context other than where is necessary to perform a contract (or take steps at your request to do so), we will share your information with such third parties in order to allow us to run and manage our business efficiently.

Legal basis for processing: necessary to perform a contract and/or to take steps at your request prior to entering into a contract (Article 6(1)(b) of the General Data Protection Regulation).

Reason why necessary to perform a contract: we may need to share information with our service providers to enable us to perform our obligations under that contract or to take the steps you have requested before we enter into a contract with you.

Disclosure and use of your information for legal reasons

Indicating possible criminal acts or threats to public security to a competent authority

If we suspect that criminal or potential criminal conduct has been occurred, we will in certain circumstances need to contact an appropriate authority, such as the police. This could be the case, for instance, if we suspect that we fraud or a cyber-crime has been committed or if we receive threats or malicious communications towards us or third parties.

We will generally only need to process your information for this purpose if you were involved or affected by such an incident in some way.

Legal basis for processing: our legitimate interests (Article 6(1)(f) of the General Data Protection Regulation).

Legitimate interests: preventing crime or suspected criminal activity (such as fraud).

In connection with the enforcement or potential enforcement our legal rights

We will use your information in connection with the enforcement or potential enforcement of our legal rights, including, for example, sharing information with debt collection agencies if you do not pay amounts owed to us when you are contractually obliged to do so. Our legal rights may be contractual (where we have entered into a contract with you) or non-contractual (such as legal rights that we have under copyright law or tort law).

Legal basis for processing: our legitimate interests (Article 6(1)(f) of the General Data Protection Regulation).

Legitimate interest: enforcing our legal rights and taking steps to enforce our legal rights.

In connection with a legal or potential legal dispute or proceedings

We may need to use your information if we are involved in a dispute with you or a third party for example, either to resolve the dispute or as part of any mediation, arbitration or court resolution or similar process.

Legal basis for processing: our legitimate interests (Article 6(1)(f) of the General Data Protection Regulation).

Legitimate interest(s): resolving disputes and potential disputes.

How long we retain your information

This section sets out how long we retain your information. We have set out specific retention periods where possible. Where that has not been possible, we have set out the criteria we use to determine the retention period.

Retention periods

Server log information: we retain information on our server logs for 3 months.

Correspondence and enquiries: when you make an enquiry or correspond with us for any reason, whether by email or via our contact form or by phone, we will retain your information for as long as it takes to respond to and resolve your enquiry, and for 36 further month(s), after which point we will archive your information.

Newsletter: we retain the information you used to sign up for our newsletter for as long as you remain subscribed (i.e. you do not unsubscribe).

Criteria for determining retention periods

In any other circumstances, we will retain your information for no longer than necessary, taking into account the following:

    • the purpose(s) and use of your information both now and in the future (such as whether it is necessary to continue to store that information in order to continue to perform our obligations under a contract with you or to contact you in the future);
    • whether we have any legal obligation to continue to process your information (such as any record-keeping obligations imposed by relevant law or regulation);
    • whether we have any legal basis to continue to process your information (such as your consent);
    • how valuable your information is (both now and in the future);
    • any relevant agreed industry practices on how long information should be retained;
    • the levels of risk, cost and liability involved with us continuing to hold the information;
    • how hard it is to ensure that the information can be kept up to date and accurate; and
    • any relevant surrounding circumstances (such as the nature and status of our relationship with you).

How we secure your information

We take appropriate technical and organisational measures to secure your information and to protect it against unauthorised or unlawful use and accidental loss or destruction, including:

  • only sharing and providing access to your information to the minimum extent necessary, subject to confidentiality restrictions where appropriate, and on an anonymised basis wherever possible;
  • using secure servers to store your information;
  • verifying the identity of any individual who requests access to information prior to granting them access to information;
  • using Secure Sockets Layer (SSL) software to encrypt any payment transactions you make on or via our website;
  • only transferring your information via closed system or encrypted data transfers;

Transmission of information to us by email

Transmission of information over the internet is not entirely secure, and if you submit any information to us over the internet (whether by email, via our website or any other means), you do so entirely at your own risk.

We cannot be responsible for any costs, expenses, loss of profits, harm to reputation, damages, liabilities or any other form of loss or damage suffered by you as a result of your decision to transmit information to us by such means.

Transfers of your information outside the European Economic Area

Your information may be transferred and stored outside the European Economic Area (EEA) in the circumstances set out earlier in this policy.

We will also transfer your information outside the EEA or to an international organisation in order to comply with legal obligations to which we are subject (compliance with a court order, for example). Where we are required to do so, we will ensure appropriate safeguards and protections are in place.

Your rights in relation to your information

Subject to certain limitations on certain rights, you have the following rights in relation to your information, which you can exercise by writing to the data controller using the details provided at the top of this policy.

  • to request access to your information and information related to our use and processing of your information;
  • to request the correction or deletion of your information;
  • to request that we restrict our use of your information;
  • to receive information which you have provided to us in a structured, commonly used and machine-readable format (e.g. a CSV file) and the right to have that information transferred to another data controller (including a third-party data controller);
  • to object to the processing of your information for certain purposes (for further information, see the section below entitled Your right to object to the processing of your information for certain purposes); and
  • to withdraw your consent to our use of your information at any time where we rely on your consent to use or process that information. Please note that if you withdraw your consent, this will not affect the lawfulness of our use and processing of your information on the basis of your consent before the point in time when you withdraw your consent.

In accordance with Article 77 of the General Data Protection Regulation, you also have the right to lodge a complaint with a supervisory authority, in particular in the Member State of your habitual residence, place of work or of an alleged infringement of the General Data Protection Regulation.

Further information on your rights in relation to your personal data as an individual

You can find out further information about your rights, as well as information on any limitations which apply to those rights, by reading the underlying legislation contained in Articles 12 to 22 and 34 of the General Data Protection Regulation, which is available here:http://ec.europa.eu/justice/data-protection/reform/files/regulation_oj_en.pdf

Verifying your identity where you request access to your information

Where you request access to your information, we are required by law to use all reasonable measures to verify your identity before doing so.

These measures are designed to protect your information and to reduce the risk of identity fraud, identity theft or general unauthorised access to your information.

How we verify your identity

Where we possess appropriate information about you on file, we will attempt to verify your identity using that information.

If it is not possible to identity you from such information, or if we have insufficient information about you, we may require original or certified copies of certain documentation in order to be able to verify your identity before we are able to provide you with access to your information.

We will be able to confirm the precise information we require to verify your identity in your specific circumstances if and when you make such a request.

Your right to object

You have the following rights in relation to your information, which you may exercise in the same way as you may exercise by writing to the data controller using the details provided at the top of this policy.

  • to object to us using or processing your information where we use or process it in order
  • to carry out a task in the public interest or for our legitimate interests, including ‘profiling’ (i.e. analysing or predicting your behaviour based on your information) based on any of these purposes; and
  • to object to us using or processing your information for direct marketing purposes (including any profiling we engage in that is related to such direct marketing).

You may also exercise your right to object to us using or processing your information for direct marketing purposes by:

  • clicking the unsubscribe link contained at the bottom of any marketing email we send to you and following the instructions which appear in your browser following your clicking on that link;
  • sending an email to info@thisishowweread.be, asking that we stop sending you marketing communications or by including the words “OPT OUT”.

Sensitive Personal Information

‘Sensitive personal information’ is information about an individual that reveals their racial or ethnic origin, political opinions, religious or philosophical beliefs, or trade union membership, genetic information, biometric information for the purpose of uniquely identifying an individual, information concerning health or information concerning a natural person’s sex life or sexual orientation.

Our website does not allow you to register any ‘Sensitive Information’, however if we ask for this, you will be considered to have explicitly consented to us processing that sensitive personal information under Article 9(2)(a) of the General Data Protection Regulation.

Changes to our Privacy Policy

We update and amend our Privacy Policy from time to time.

Minor changes to our Privacy Policy

Where we make minor changes to our Privacy Policy, we will update our Privacy Policy with a new effective date stated at the beginning of it. Our processing of your information will be governed by the practices set out in that new version of the Privacy Policy from its effective date onwards.

Major changes to our Privacy Policy or the purposes for which we process your information

Where we make major changes to our Privacy Policy or intend to use your information for a new purpose or a different purpose than the purposes for which we originally collected it, we will notify you by email (where possible) or by posting a notice on our website.

We will provide you with the information about the change in question and the purpose and any other relevant information before we use your information for that new purpose.

Wherever required, we will obtain your prior consent before using your information for a purpose that is different from the purposes for which we originally collected it.

Children’s Privacy

Because we care about the safety and privacy of children online, we comply with the Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act of 1998 (COPPA). COPPA and its accompanying regulations protect the privacy of children using the internet. We do not knowingly contact or collect information from persons under the age of 18. The website is not intended to solicit information of any kind from persons under the age of 18.

It is possible that we could receive information pertaining to persons under the age of 18 by the fraud or deception of a third party. If we are notified of this, as soon as we verify the information, we will, where required by law to do so, immediately obtain the appropriate parental consent to use that information or, if we are unable to obtain such parental consent, we will delete the information from our servers. If you would like to notify us of our receipt of information about persons under the age of 18, please do so by contacting us by using the details at the top of this policy.